If you want to design a lifestyle you've only dreamt of, you're going to have to do it from the inside out. 

My father-in-law died unexpectedly in his late fifties. You’re never really prepared for what grief can do to your fine little life. I thought this was the beginning of my unraveling but, looking back I had always been unfulfilled and my life wasn't that fine after all.  I had started coming apart at the seams long before tragedy struck and I hit a breaking point;  I just got so sick and tired of being sick and tired. So, I leaned in, did the work (that I rolled my eyes at for years), made some significant, uncomfortable changes and designed my ultimate dream life.

I had checked all the boxes: fell in love, got married, had kids, bought a house, worked for a company I loved, sometimes worked out, drank [a lot of] wine around kitchen islands with great friends.
It was fine.  Until it wasn't.

And that's when everything turned around. After years of pushing myself to burnout, trying to please people who hardly noticed, I finally said, "enough of this shit." It was quite the journey of breaking habits and establishing rituals, figuring out what did and didn't work, and learning to accept myself just as I am. In the end, I found freedom and a fresh sense of purpose by putting my own happiness and authenticity first.  In 2023 I pursued and achieved the dream of becoming an Internationally Certified Coach through the Mind Rebel Academy.  

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Together, we can cultivate that newfound confidence that empowers you to design your lifestyle unapologetically and advocate for yourself in every aspect of your life. I'll support you in surrounding yourself with individuals who uplift and encourage your growth, while helping you navigate away from those who might hinder it. As you evolve and thrive, I'll guide you in harnessing your journey's positive energy to inspire others, fostering a community of empowerment, positivity, and self-acceptance. Through our collaboration, you'll not only embark on your own path to fulfillment but also become a beacon of inspiration for those around you, igniting transformative change in their lives as well.

It wasn't easy breaking free from the expectations and judgments of others, but with each step forward, I feel more empowered. Embracing my flaws and quirks has become a badge of honor rather than a source of shame. I realized that the only validation I needed comes from within, not from conforming to outdated stereotypes or societal norms.